One of the very first things we were probably taught as children is called the Golden Rule. We all can recite these words: “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” Often we learn this very early, as a result of negative experiences. For instance, if you do not want to get …
Hospitality is closely related to courtesy, selflessness, deference, and friendliness. It implies a special type of kindness put into action. Perhaps the best way to understand hospitality is to discuss what it is not. Hospitality is the exact opposite of selfishness. We live in a world full of selfish people of all ages. When selfish …
Deference is a trait that is hard to define and maybe even harder to practice. Deference is part good manners, part humility, and part unselfishness. It sometimes involves putting yourself last and taking responsibility for a problem even when it is not your fault. In contrast, if we are always focused on ourselves, we can …