One of the very first things we were probably taught as children is called the Golden Rule. We all can recite these words: “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” Often we learn this very early, as a result of negative experiences. For instance, if you do not want to get hit or kicked, do not hit or kick others. If you do not want to have your toys taken away from you, do not snatch the toys from your friend. If you do not want sand in your eyes, do not throw sand at others. If you do not like to be made fun of, do not tease other people. The list could go on and on. This is respect at the very most basic level, and it is closely related to the character trait of courtesy. Children must learn to treat their friends just like they would like to be treated. As we look at respectfulness, consider three different aspects.
The first aspect of respect has to do with a healthy element of fear. This is the same idea of respect that a carpenter has for his tools or that a sailor has for the sea. In much the same way, we should have a healthy fear of our authorities. They could be dangerous if we are not being obedient and law-abiding. There are consequences for being disrespectful—a spanking from our parents or a ticket and fines for speeding.
The second aspect of respect has to do with observing a person’s merit or worth. Because we are made in God’s image, we are worthy of respect. All people should be treated with polite respect and deference regardless of their merits or abilities.
Thirdly, there is an aspect of respect that includes the reverence and awe that we have in the presence of someone we consider truly extraordinary. This is a feeling that humbles us and uplifts us at the same time.
Clearly all three of these aspects of respect can be applied to God. A healthy fear of God keeps us on the right path. God should be respected because we are His creation, and we reverence God for Who He is. When we apply these areas of respect to our daily lives, we can benefit not only other people but also ourselves.
The Greek word for respect is a word which simply means “to look away from all else to the person or object being reverenced, to look steadfastly.” In learning to respect God, we should look away from everything else: our peers, the enticements of the world and especially away from ourselves! We should turn toward God and keep our eyes continually focused upon Him.
Sometimes we must go to great effort to show respect. Doing only the easy or trivial things to show respect does not usually require much effort on our part, but to show true, sincere respectfulness will sometimes take more effort. Think about it—it takes little to no effort to be disrespectful. Disrespect is merely disregarding the worth of those around you. On the other hand, to demonstrate respect consistently requires a person to make a concerted effort to do so. It does not come naturally to anyone, but giving honor glorifies God and can bring you to a place you never thought you could be.
MEMORY VERSE
“Honor all men. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honour the king.” I Peter 2:17